These are the questions Upper Darby families ask most about memory care — costs, eligibility, licensing, and how to move quickly — answered for Delaware County specifically. Upper Darby is a large, densely populated Delaware County township bordering West Philadelphia, with a broad, comparatively affordable mix of personal care homes and assisted living around the 69th Street Terminal and Drexel Hill.
Memory Care: what you're actually buying
Memory care is a secured, structured setting with dementia-trained staff for residents who wander, need extra cueing, or are no longer safe in standard assisted living.
Pennsylvania has no separate memory-care license; dementia care is delivered within a Personal Care Home or Assisted Living Residence under the applicable chapter (55 Pa. Code Ch. 2600 or 2800), which require disclosure of the specific dementia-care services offered. A typical monthly range is $6,200 to $8,600 a month.
The details that matter most rarely show up in the brochure:
- that the specific secured unit is disclosed and staffed as a dementia-care setting
- how many dementia-training hours staff have completed, and how recently
- the awake-overnight ratio in the secured unit specifically
What it costs, and how families pay, in Upper Darby
In the Upper Darby market, memory care typically runs $6,200 to $8,600 a month. Upper Darby pricing runs toward the lower half of the metro range. Most families combine sources over time: private savings and Social Security first, then long-term-care insurance if it's in place, VA Aid & Attendance for eligible veterans and surviving spouses, and Pennsylvania's Community HealthChoices (CHC), which can cover care services (not room and board) for those who meet the income and asset tests.
Verify any community's license and inspection record on the appropriate PA DHS or PA DOH facility search before you commit — these are the statewide databases that cover every provider in Delaware County.
What to do next
You don't have to sort this out alone. Call a free Philly Senior Advisor advisor at (855) 768-7212, or request a call back, and we'll match you to one to three vetted options.
